||[Sep. 5th, 2007|11:48 pm]
Crush the rules!|
I have been reading about yound girls and their 'forever crushes' these days from some self help books. And i'd like to comply some rules, rather, guidelines to help us to deal with our feelings as well as our crushes.
First we MUST understand this basic concept- Never keep ur feelings inside you. Tell someone you trust, at least.
There are several things we need to know.
1) A crush doesnt mean it has to lead to anything.
2) And never nurse a crush too long. I mean nursing your crush in years.
3)Dont confess to your crush anonymously.
4) Neither confess to your crush in a group situation.
Liking and admiring someone is normal. And your crush could be anyone. It could be your best friend, some guy next door, your science teacher, or even a celebrity.
To help you to confirm that that's the guy/girl you like, here's what we are often feeling when we see him/her.
You might feel shy or giddly or all at once. Perhaps you become speechless or tongue-tied.
Guys are werid creatures. If they like a girl, some might tease them to get their attraction or chase them around. PLEASE dont do that. It might turn out negative instead.
So, if you guys have anything more abiut ur crush or any advices, feel free to post/comment.